Be Unmessablewith: The Podcast hosted by Josselyne Herman-Saccio

WHY AM I LIKE THIS with Sabrina Zohar

Be Unmessablewith: The Podcast hosted by Josselyne Herman-Saccio

Show Notes

The relationship patterns that keep repeating aren't proof that you're broken. They're clues to what you learned and an opportunity to create something different.

In this episode of the Be Unmessablewith podcast, Josselyne Herman-Saccio sits down with dating and relationship coach, podcast host, and author Sabrina Zohar to talk about why we repeat the same patterns in dating, relationships, and even other areas of our lives. Sabrina shares her own journey from struggling with dating and self-worth to understanding the patterns underneath her choices, which ultimately inspired her new book, Why Am I Like This?

Together, Josselyne and Sabrina explore how your nervous system, childhood experiences, attachment patterns, and beliefs influence the way you show up in relationships. More importantly, they talk about how to move from reaction to responsibility, stop blaming your past, and start creating healthier relationships now.

In this episode, you'll learn: Why the same relationship patterns keep showing up

How your nervous system impacts dating and relationships

Why curiosity is more powerful than blame

How to stop reacting and start responding

If you've ever wondered, "Why am I like this in relationships?" or found yourself repeating patterns you know aren't working, this conversation will help you understand what's underneath them and begin creating something new.

Discover How Unmessablewith Are You? Take the Free Quiz now and get a roadmap to elevate your unmessablewithness. https://form.typeform.com/to/Ch8Mn9Yb

Check out Sabrina’s new book: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/801995/why-am-i-like-this-by-sabrina-zohar-foreword-by-ramani-durvasula-phd/

Find Sabrina at: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sabrina.zohar/

Connect With Josselyne Website: beunmessablewith.com Instagram: @beunmessablewith Facebook: Unmessablewithness LinkedIn: josselyneherman-saccio YouTube: @beunmessablewith

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