62. When spirituality can become a coping mechanism. Learn to listen to your inner voice.

Are you longing for more community and feel like it is really hard to find? Then this episode is for you. Over the years I have been really sitting with the question of how to meet likeminded people who will actually be supportive to your journey, and I share on it in this episode. Where I feel like a lot of people make mistakes on this topic is that they seek fulfilment and happiness outside themselves. This does not mean that we need to be alone for the rest of our lives, but in my opinion, get to become so good on our own that we don't need others to make us happy. Meeting aligned people becomes so much more effortless because you are not constantly focusing on the lack, but filling your time with things you already like because you care for yourself. In this episode, I share a three step method on how to manifest friendships (this works for relationships as well) and the steps are: 1. Get clear on what kind of relationships you want and let go of any expectations. Let it be "this or something better" 2. Take action by showing up as all of who you are. The right people will see you and appreciate you with all of your quirks. 3. Invest in the relationships. Once you meet someone, you gotta maintain the relationship. Notice if you get the same amount of effort back and be okay with relations fading away. The episode I was mentioning: Ep 63. Take ownership over yourself, instead of blaming others, and your relationships will change.

Hi beautiful soul and welcome to of the earth! Relationships are one of our biggest learning arenas and we can either live in our reactive nature, aka get mad and react to all the triggers that comes up, or we can take ownership over our own side of the street. My relationship has been the biggest blessing and challenge so far in my life and I have learned so much about who I am. Being in a union of two souls, whether it's a friendship, partnership, or family, is a magical way to process old wounds and hurt. A disclaimer: I am NOT saying to stay in relationships with people who are abusive, or harm you in any way. I am however saying that we are co creating life together with all the souls we meet. You have been a part in a dynamic, and once you get out of it and some time has passed, I invite you to look at how you showed up in the relationship and why you ended up there. It's not always easy to do the work of becoming radically honest with yourself, but that is the only way we are able to change AND create healthy, loving relationships that last.

As we move along this journey called life, we accumulate different tools that has helped us to get to where we are today. This can be everything from Breathwork, to reiki, to dance, to nature, to therapy and so on.

Things are changing in my life and there are a lot of new solidifying in my life. So here is an episode all about how I am moving into it as a projector who has been very burnt out in the past by taking on WAAY too much.

Hello you beautiful being!