Matt Abrahams: Think Fast, Talk Smart! The Mindset That Helps Entrepreneurs Beat Speaking Anxiety | Human Behavior | YAPClassic
Young and Profiting (YAP) with Hala Taha: Entrepreneurship and Self-Improvement PodcastShow Notes
Mindset matters just as much as communication skills when speaking under pressure. Up to 85% of people report feeling nervous in high-stakes communication situations, but Stanford communication expert Matt Abrahams teaches that confident communicators aren't born; they're trained. In this episode, Matt shares practical strategies to manage communication anxiety so entrepreneurs, leaders, and professionals can think faster and speak smarter in every business conversation.
In this episode, Hala and Matt will discuss:
(00:00) Introduction
(01:43) Navigating the Fear of Spontaneous Speaking
(07:36) The Key to Better Small Talk
(10:46) Why Mediocrity Improves Communication
(14:04) The 6 Steps to Thinking Faster, Talking Smarter
(16:22) Managing Anxiety in High-Stakes Conversations
(25:21) The Right Balance Between Listening and Talking
(30:22) Simple Structures for Speaking on the Spot
(37:14) The Impact of Using Fewer Words
(40:56) Reading the Room and Winning Negotiations
(45:53) Networking Without Awkward Small Talk
(51:36) The Communication Habits That Build Confidence
Matt Abrahams is a lecturer at the Stanford Graduate School of Business, where he teaches Strategic Communication and Effective Virtual Presenting. He is the author of Speaking Up Without Freaking Out and Think Faster, Talk Smarter, and hosts the popular Think Fast, Talk Smart podcast. Matt has helped individuals deliver impactful presentations, from IPO roadshows to Nobel Prize speeches, TED Talks, and World Economic Forum sessions. He also consults for the United Nations and advises Fortune 100 companies.
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Matt’s Book, Speaking Up Without Freaking Out: bit.ly/MA-SpeakingUp
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