She Who Dares, Wins.

Dare to Ask for Help: Reaching Out to People Ahead of You

She Who Dares, Wins.

Show Notes

This week’s dare: Reach out to someone who’s a few steps ahead of you in an area you’re trying to grow—business, career, or even a hobby. In this Dare Day episode, Michelle shares:

A recent story about emailing a podcasting expert and how one conversation completely refreshed her vision for She Who Dares Wins Why we often convince ourselves that “they’re too busy” or “I’m too small fry” How many successful people genuinely want to give back and support those coming up behind them A simple example of using this dare for something like wild swimming—finding people near you and asking to join them

Michelle also: Invites you to reach out to her directly if you think she can help you on your journey Encourages you to pitch yourself to podcasts (hers and others!) Shares an update on Dare Club, her structured, paid online community, now launching on 27th April with an initial 50 spots, plus future live event opportunities

Your dare: Today, send a message or an email to someone whose experience you admire. Ask one clear question or request a tiny bit of guidance. Hit send.

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