Uncovered: Life Beyond

53. Facing Down a Stonewall: Standing up for Financial Fairness

Uncovered: Life Beyond

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Send us Fan Mail Financial autonomy is crucial to everyone's wellbeing, but what happens when one partner refuses to engage in conversations about money? We explore the dynamics of financial stonewalling and share practical strategies for taking ownership of your adult responsibilities. • Financial issues can become control mechanisms when one partner refuses to engage in good faith • Both men and women have been socialized to question women's financial abilities and understanding • Re...

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