Show Notes
Esther Jones is a long-time unschooling parent who joins me to talk about how kids learn, how we can support learning, and what it looks like to truly trust our kids in their own educational journey. A rich conversation for people regardless of your schooling approach, Esther embodies a conviction that learning is our kids' native state, and that all we have to create a open, trusting, collaborative space, and they will learn in abundance!
Meet Esther:
- Esther's website: https://www.esther-jones.com/
- Read Esther's book: https://us.jkp.com/products/the-parents-handbook-to-unschooling-yourself
-Explore the Unschooling Summit: https://www.theunschoolingsummit.org/
- Esther's podcast: https://theunschoolspace.buzzsprout.com/
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