Gin and Chat with Lo and Nat

66: "Gin & Chat About Codependent Enablers, Narcissists & Grief | Sue Us!"

Gin and Chat with Lo and Nat

Show Notes

🍒🍸 We are so back! This week we're sipping on some cherry coke zero and gin while we chat about our messy and misfortunate summers.

We're discussing accidentally falling for a narcissist (RIP "Pirate Pete"), what it actually feels like to be blindsided in love, and having the strength to finally walk away. How to deal with unexpected grief and allowing yourself time to bounce back.

On a lighter note, we dissect our friendship and finally determine the name for our dynamic; codependent enablers. We discuss why having hard conversations means that you care, and that finding friends who hold you accountable are the best ones to keep around.

Oh, and we're addressing the elephant in the room: yes, we took a summer break. Sue us.

Grab your drink of choice and settle in — this one's got grief, growth, friendship truths, and somehow, once again, it all circles back to Taylor Swift.

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TIMESTAMPS 0:00 Introduction ft. cherry coke zero & gin 3:13 Little Life Updates ft. a Narcissistic Pirate 6:37 Navigating Grief 12:21 The Ultimate Lesson 15:16 Friendship Faults 17:04 Codependent Enablers 20:46 Accountability Checks 27:34 Monthly Episodes 33:27 Happy Hour Hot Take 36:21 Conclusion

Drop a comment and tell us: do you identify with the term codependent enabler?

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