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72. Care vs. Control: The Contradictions of Psychiatry with Grace Kim, PMHNP-BC

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In episode 72, Allyson chats with psychiatric nurse practitioner and lived experience advocate, Grace Kim PMHNP-BC, about the contradictions of psychiatry, as well as what psychiatry in eating disorder care can look like. There is so much (understandable) skepticism when it comes to psychiatric medications, how can we hold both the ways that it can be useful and life saving, as well as the ways it can create more harm and distress? You'll hear us cover: Care vs. Control in Psychiatry Science vs. Subjectivity in Psychiatry Liberation vs. Oppression in Psychiatry Medication Supports for Eating Disorders How to hold client skepticism through an anti-oppression lens Grace's personal experience with EDs, Korean beauty standards and psychiatric support.

About our guest: Grace Kim, PMHNP-BC (she/her) is a board-certified Psychiatric-Mental Health Nurse Practitioner offering virtual and in-person care for adults across New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut. Her practice is grounded in a collaborative, trauma-informed approach that recognizes healing is often non-linear and actively rejects coercive models of care. She specializes in mood and anxiety disorders, trauma, identity exploration, and disordered eating, providing comprehensive psychiatric evaluations, medication management, and supportive therapy. Grace earned her Bachelor’s degree from UCLA and her Master of Science in Nursing from Yale University. Website Instagram: @psychnpgrace

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