Show Notes
Sam Jolman says, “Talking to your children about sex should be likened to having 100 one-minute conversations.”
As we continue season 5 on relational intelligence, therapist and author Sam Jolman joins us once again, this time to talk about how to help our kids script a narrative of romance.
In this episode, Sam shares profound insights on age-specific ways to talk to your kids about their body, why it’s important to follow their questions, and how to cultivate a value-based, not a fear-based conversation. In the end, the goal is to help our kids experience awe, not live in shame.
Time Stamps: 0:00 Introduction 2:19 Sam Jolman joins the show! 3:10 Talking to kids ages 0 to 6 6:40 A profound insight on shame and glory 12:09 Talking to kids ages 7 to 12 20:50 Moving from fear-based to values-base conversation with your kids 24:40 Talking to teens 30:10 The difference between arousal and lust 33:20 Preparing our kids for marriage 40:02 Innocence, not naivety
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