Sex Chat for Christian Wives

The Messiness of Sex

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Show Notes

We address the messiness of sex—what contributes to it, what's normal (and what's not), and how to deal with the mess. Sponsors Join podcast co-host J. Parker and Brad & Kate Aldrich of Aldrich Ministries Coaching Network for a 7-day cruise starting Valentine's Day 2027! Click HERE to learn more about this opportunity to sail to better intimacy. Married Dance is a Christian-friendly sex toy store, with a nudity-free, marriage-focused environment and discreet billing and shipping. Check them out HERE. From the Bible

Husband I have come to my garden—my sister, my bride. I gather my myrrh with my spices. I eat my honeycomb with my honey. I drink my wine with my milk.

Narrator Eat, friends! Drink, be intoxicated with love!

Song of Songs 5:1 (HCSB) Resources

Why Are You Leaking After Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Spiritual Fulfillment by Clifford & Joyce Penner Episode 101: Enjoying Sex, with Joyce Penner Female Ejaculation: Is It Real? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Sexual Intimacy & Your Period: Tips for Wives - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 202: What Women Ask Us (In Person) - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (we address anal sex in this episode) Episode 184: The Power of a Shower (Quickie) Love Mop Premium Cotton After Care Towel | Amazon Liberator Fascinator Throw | Married Dance Dental Dam Cunnilingus Barrier | Married Dance goodwipes pH Balanced for Feminine Hygiene | Amazon healthy hoohoo Feminine Wipes, Individually Wrapped | Amazon Sliquid Splash Gentle Feminine Wash | Married Dance Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here.

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Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

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