The Dating Orange

How Attachment Shapes Your Dating Life - with Adam Lane Smith

The Dating Orange

Show Notes

Today I’m joined by Adam Lane Smith, also known as Attachment Adam, a global expert in attachment theory, author, speaker, and former marriage and family therapist. Adam breaks down attachment theory in a way that's easy to understand so if you were ever wondering why a fella acts so all-over-the-place and you simply can't understand him - you might find some answers today. We also chat about some other hot topics, including why women settle for situationships, how women are wired for stability, and the concept of emotional impermanence. If you enjoy a bit of science and understanding what's going on in our bodies, there will be lots of words like oxytocin, GABA, cortisol, dopamine, and serotonin being mentioned. No blind date couple this week - sorry guys! More to come soooon. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-dating-orange-podcast--5898530/support. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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