Can't Afford Therapy

Rage on Silent: "When Holding It In Becomes the Problem"

Can't Afford Therapy

Show Notes

SaVon, Antoinette, and Josh dive into the truth about anger and why it's often misunderstood. In a world that pushes us to stay calm, polite, and "civil," they explore how rage—especially when rooted in personal experiences and societal pressures—can actually be a powerful and necessary emotion. Through personal stories and cultural insight, they unpack the difference between destructive anger and "sacred rage," and why suppressing it can do more harm than good. Inspired by voices like Cole Arthur Riley, Audre Lorde, and James Baldwin, this conversation challenges the idea that anger is something to avoid—and instead reframes it as something to understand, process, and use with intention. Watch full episodes on YouTube and subscribe so you never miss a drop: https://www.youtube.com/@cantaffordtherapypod

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