Life Matters - Full program podcast

Why men struggle to hold onto their friends and calling out a white lie

Life Matters - Full program podcast

Show Notes

Australian men are more likely to be more socially disconnected than Australian women, and are less likely to form strong connections with people beyond their partners. So what's going on? Sociologist Roger Patulny and psychologist Chris Cheers break down the male friendship recession — and how you can turn it around. This week, Aunties Kat Feeney and Suren Jayemanne give listener Lenny some advice on how to deal with a fibbing friend. Marcus has been telling tall tales since they were kids, but now they're middle aged, is it time for Lenny to call out his friend's white lies?

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