The Florence Given Show

hating yourself is boring.

The Florence Given Show

Show Notes

In a totally unplanned episode, I discuss the differences I’ve noticed between British girls and American girls in how he approach our insecurities - and my theories about why British women are more self deprecating.

Hint: It’s not that we hate ourselves more, it’s that we’re not given cultural permission to want MORE - and that we’re encouraged socially to be humble, small and hate ourselves as a form of proving our virtue.

Let’s dive IN!

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