Show Notes
In this episode, we talk about how easy it is to internalize someone else’s behavior in dating and walk away believing we weren’t enough. We also lay down a clear line: relationships should feel emotionally safe, aligned with our values, and supportive of the life we’re building. In this episode, we discuss about: Internalizing a partner’s actions as a verdict on our worthHow criticism and “too much accountability” erode confidenceThe difference between helpful feedback and superficial nitpic...
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