Thriving with DBT

Distress Tolerance Week 2

Thriving with DBT

Show Notes

The podcast episode focuses on distress tolerance and mindfulness, exploring the use of distraction, comparison, and emotion regulation as coping skills. The conversation delves into the practice of mindfulness, word association exercises, and the application of distress tolerance skills in real-life scenarios. The conversation covers various distress tolerance skills, including pushing away, distracting with thoughts, and embracing physical sensations. Edward shares his experience with these skills and their impact on his emotional regulation. The discussion also delves into the pros and cons of engaging in problem behaviors and using distress tolerance skills instead.

Takeaways Distraction as a distress tolerance skill Comparison as a tool for cultivating gratitude Distress tolerance skills such as pushing away, distracting with thoughts, and embracing physical sensations can help regulate emotions and reduce rumination. Engaging in problem behaviors often provides relief or escape from discomfort, while using distress tolerance skills requires sitting with discomfort and uncertainty.

Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Distress Tolerance and Mindfulness 03:01 Mindfulness and Word Association Exercise 04:53 Reflection on Word Association Exercise 07:02 Distraction as a Distress Tolerance Skill 09:20 Wise Mind Accepts - Activities and Contributions 12:53 Wise Mind Accepts - Comparison and Emotion Regulation 36:27 Embracing Physical Sensations 41:22 Pros and Cons of Problem Behaviors and Skills

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