Show Notes
Episode Summary:
In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kerri Sloper shares her journey as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and her mission to empower children and parents through her children's books. Kerri discusses the healing power of music and writing, the importance of speaking out, and the role of parents in preventing abuse. She emphasises the need for open communication about good and bad touching and how her books serve as tools for healing and understanding. The conversation highlights the significance of breaking the cycle of abuse and fostering a safe environment for children.
Key Takeaways:
Kerri Sloper is a musician and author who writes children's books about her experiences with childhood sexual abuse.
Her books aim to help both children and adult survivors relate to their experiences and find healing.
Music and writing have been crucial coping strategies for Kerri throughout her healing journey.
Kerri emphasises the importance of speaking out about abuse to help others heal.
She believes that forgiveness is an internal journey that does not require forgiving the abuser.
Kerri's books are designed to be relatable for children and to help them understand their feelings about abuse.
Parents play a vital role in preventing abuse by trusting their instincts and believing their children.
Teaching children about good touching and bad touching is essential for their safety.
Kerri's mission is to break the cycle of abuse and empower future generations.
The conversation highlights the importance of open communication between parents and children about sensitive topics.
Episode Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction to Kerri Sloper and Her Journey 03:06 - The Healing Power of Storytelling 05:44 - Navigating the Impact of Childhood Trauma 08:50 - Understanding the Complexity of Belief and Truth 11:42 - The Role of Forgiveness in Healing 14:57 - The Journey of Writing and Sharing Her Story 17:41 - Breaking the Cycle of Abuse 20:32 - The Importance of Internal Healing 23:20 - The Process of Writing and Publishing Books 24:24 - The Journey of Writing and Inspiration 26:01 - Understanding the Target Audience for Children's Books 28:48 - Exploring Themes of Healing and Resilience 30:28 - The Importance of Forgiveness in Healing 32:32 - Navigating the Complexities of Disclosure 35:42 - The Role of Art in Healing 38:15 - Spreading Awareness and Reducing Stigma 40:17 - Empowering Parents to Protect Their Children
For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources
You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/O12JXIWLDDw
To purchase Kerri's books please head to https://www.amazon.com.au/s?i=books-single-index&rh=p_27%3AKerri%2B%2BJ%2BSloper&s=relevancerank&text=Kerri++J+Sloper&ref=dp_byline_sr_book_1 and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/kerri-sloper-a56420253
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