Starting NEW: 19 Words That Create Motivation On the Spot and Other Phrases You Need to Say
Renew You with Quinn KellyShow Notes
We want to use our words to communicate and communicate well. We want our words to create change where needed and motivate others around us to do what is expected. But often our words seem to create negativity but not lead to change. Todays’ episode is all about one magical parenting phrase and a few other general phrases we can learn that we can use to renew negative communication patterns into something positive. After listening today, listeners will understand: 1. One 19-word phrase that increases motivation in children by 40 percent 2. Simple ways to change what you say to create connection instead of criticism in your interaction 3. Where to focus your attention if you don’t know how to avoid criticism Mind Renewal Tip: We often assume harsh words are the best way to create change and be heard instead of understanding positive words can create far more motivation. Scripture Renewal Tip: Let no corrupting talk come out of your tongue. But only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that is may give grace to those that hear. Ephesians 4:29 Resources: https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/xge-a0033906.pdf https://danielcoyle.com/2013/12/13/the-simple-phrase-that-increases-effort-40/
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