My First Patient Died and Nobody Told Me It Would Feel Like This
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If you're processing your first patient death right now, or if you're scared about when it's going to happen, we've got resources at NURSING.com that can help. We've got articles on grief processing for nurses, videos on coping with loss, and a community of nursing students who've been exactly where you are. Head to NURSING.com/griefandloss and find the support you need. And if this episode helped you, share it with a classmate who might need it. Because nobody should have to process their first patient death alone.
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