To Baby or Not To Baby?

S2 Ep3: The Not-by-Choice Non-Mum

To Baby or Not To Baby?

Show Notes

Naomi meets Caroline, who has stopped trying to get pregnant after nine years. They discuss: assuming you’ll have children, having bad experiences at fertility clinics, overseas clinics, living through a miscarriage, moving on with your life, the business that has come out of her experience. Where you can get support if you’re going through something similar to Caroline.

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