Show Notes
Welcome to episode 492 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Susanna Brisk, who shares with me her insights on reconnecting to desire, the energetic body and sexual intuition.
In this episode, Susanna and I talk about how sexuality is much more than just technique. We discuss the energetic body, the unconscious agreements we bring to our relationships, and how shame, religious guilt, trauma, gender roles and cultural expectations can subtly impact desire.
Susanna Brisk is a Sexual Intuitive® who teaches people how to trust what they feel, even when it contradicts what they believe. Her work centers on restoring self-trust by translating the body’s intuitive signals into clear, actionable insight. Born in Estonia and raised in Australia after emigrating through the U.N. Refugee Program, Susanna has lived a wide-ranging life—from being scouted as a model and booking national TV commercials to working as a writer, stand-up comic, actor, and solo performer.
In this episode, you will hear:
Understanding The Energetic Body Desire And Body Connection Shame, Guilt, And Sexuality Toxic Masculinity And Femininity Power Dynamics In Relationships Submission, Choice, And Consent Abandoning Yourself Sexually Wants, Needs, And Turn-Ons Rethinking Intimacy And Pleasure Self-Intimacy Touch Practice
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