Show Notes
Shame! Shame! Shame! Shame! The four distinct faces of shame that all interplay with each other:
1. Toxic shame (ouch!) there is something deeply wrong with me-i am bad. 2. Invitational shame, opportunity to learn, grow, make amends, deepen empathy & put things right. 3. The blamers & shamers- they project their own unprocessed toxic shame onto others. Always angry, always looking for the opportunity to be offended! 4. playful shame. Shame on you 😊 this invites deep healing to meet & embrace our authentic, beautiful selves 🙏❤️🙏
Podcast Editor - Ger Kellett
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Referenxes ------------ ‘Shame, Shame, Shame Shirley & Company from Shame, Shame, Shame (1975)
‘Creep’ Radiohead from Pablo honey (1992)
‘Freak like me’ Macy Gray from The Id (2001)
‘Going down the road feeling bad’ (Grateful dead) performed by Lucinda Williams & friends from Day of the dead (2016)
‘Shame’ Matchbox 20 from Yourself or someone like you (1996)
‘Ways to cry’ John Martyn from No little boy (1992)
‘How?’ John Lennon from Imagine (1971)
‘Blinded by the hunt’ Rickie Lee Jones from The other side of midnight (2015)
‘Dirty Blvd.’ Lou Reed from New York (1989)
‘Movin on up’ Primal Scream from Screamadelica (1991)
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