The Baddest Bitch in the Building

Patriarchy Hack #37: Always have one foot out

The Baddest Bitch in the Building

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Commitment and loyalty are glorified ways of infantilizing ourselves. Patriarchy needs to mentally capture women in order to function, and one of its PR team's favourite marketing tactics is "commitment."

In this episode I'll discuss: Why you've been conditioned to think your worth depends on how committed you are How people play mind games to make you commit The different disguises loyalty wears An example of a baddie who committed, got screwed over, became unattached, and found huge success 4 strategies to never fall victim to loyalty again

In a world full of sheep and wolves, be a fox.

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki

Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 6:02 Unlearning the crap 21:35 The law in the wild 27:32 What this means for you 41:00 Exceptions & final thoughts

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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________

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