Show Notes
Commitment is required to quit pornography, but the kind of commitment you create matters. In this first episode of a four-part series on the pillars needed to overcome pornography, I talk about why shame-free commitment is the foundation for lasting change.
I explain why commitment does not mean being perfect, never struggling, or quitting immediately. Instead, true commitment means being willing to do the work, learn the skills you need, and continue moving forward even when things do not go exactly as planned.
You’ll learn how all-or-nothing thinking can interfere with your commitment, how to identify the limiting beliefs that may be keeping you stuck, and why creating commitment from a place of worthiness and dignity instead of shame can change the way you approach quitting pornography.
Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/shame-free-commitment-pillar-one Mentioned in this episode: Podcast Resources: Workbook + Call with Hunter Want to dive deeper into the work you’re hearing about on the podcast? Check out the workbook to learn how to apply these concepts.
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