
SPECIAL GUEST!! đ„ The 30-Second Habit That Got Avni Barman a $40K Raise | Ep. 554
Do This, NOT That: Marketing Tips with Jay SchwedelsonShow Notes
Partner with Jay: https://www.jayschwedelson.com/contact ă € Check out Jay Schwedelson's new book: Stupider People Have Done It All net proceeds are donated to The V Foundation for Cancer Research, let's kick cancer's butt: https://www.amazon.com/Stupider-People-Have-Done-Marketing/dp/1637635206 ă € Subscribe to Jay's newsletter for weekly marketing tips and tactics: https://www.jayschwedelson.com/newsletter ă € Register for GuruConference (FREE + VIRTUAL!) https://www.guruconference.com ă € Check out Eventastic (FREE + VIRTUAL!) https://www.eventastic.com ă € Connect with Jay on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/schwedelson/ Check out Jay's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@schwedelson Check out Jay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayschwedelson/ Ask Jay anything: https://www.jayschwedelson.com/ask ă € Leave a comment and follow the show, it really helps us out! ă € Most networking advice stops at "put yourself out there." Avni Barman has an actual system: cold messages fired off before she's brushed her teeth, and a Thursday wine bar reservation that turns two contacts into ten. She walks Jay Schwedelson through the daily habits that built a community of hundreds of thousands of women, plus the lazy thirty-second thing she started doing at a job she was trying to get fired from. ă € Follow Avni on LinkedIn, Instagram, and TikTok, where she shares free networking guides and conference bibles at beacons.ai/avni_barman. Listen to The Gen She Podcast on Spotify or YouTube. Start a Gen She chapter in your city, there are over 100 worldwide. Founders who want to pitch the fund can apply at generationshe.co/fund. ă € Best Moments: (01:26) What Gen She actually is: a media company and a fund pointed at the same audience (04:29) Why cold messaging has to be a daily practice and not a once-a-year event (06:37) Skip the people next to you at conferences and go straight for the speakers (07:40) Book one casual reservation, ask for plus ones, walk away with ten new connectionsă € (11:03) The daily screenshot habit she invented out of laziness that turned into a $40,000 raise (14:07) When you hit rock bottom, everyone else's opinion about your career gets very quiet
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Partner with Jay: https://www.jayschwedelson.com/contact ă € Check out Jay Schwedelson's new book: Stupider People Have Done It All net proceeds are donated to The V Foundation for Cancer Research, let's kick cancer's butt: https://www.amazon.com/Stupider-People-Have-Done-Marketing/dp/1637635206 ă € Subscribe to Jay's newsletter for weekly marketing tips and tactics: https://www.jayschwedelson.com/newsletter ă € Register for GuruConference (FREE + VIRTUAL!) https://www.guruconference.com ă € Check out Eventastic (FREE + VIRTUAL!) https://www.eventastic.com ă € Connect with Jay on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/schwedelson/ Check out Jay's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@schwedelson Check out Jay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayschwedelson/ Ask Jay anything: https://www.jayschwedelson.com/ask ă € Leave a comment and follow the show, it really helps us out! ă € MASSIVE thank you to our Sponsor, CallRail! CallRail is the AI-powered lead intelligence platform that helps marketers prove exactly whatâs driving results. With CallRail, you can connect every call, text, chat, and form submission directly to the campaign that generated it so you finally know whatâs working and where to double down. Plus, with built-in AI conversation intelligence, CallRail analyzes your customer conversations, captures leads 24/7, and gives you deeper insights into what your prospects actually care about. If youâre tired of guessing about your marketing ROI and want real data behind your campaigns, CallRail has you covered. Start a Free Trial Here: https://www.callrail.com/dothis ă € LinkedInâs new Super Like gives paying members a reaction that might push a post further than any regular like, which raises a fair question about who really controls your reach. Jay Schwedelson sorts out whatâs confirmed from whatâs still rumor, then flags a couple of small platform changes that could quietly reshape how people engage with your content. After that, he takes a hard left into a three-hour documentary he says he could have watched for ten, plus a streaming chart that makes you wonder what everyone is doing with their free time. ă € Best Moments: (00:33) The Super Like is real, and premium users get a purple star to hand out (02:30) Pinned comments are back, and they let you steer the whole conversation (03:17) Instagram Edits now shows whatâs trending with your specific audience (04:34) The five industries with the worst inbox placement, starting with business services (05:45) You Can See Everything, the three-hour Elizabeth Holmes documentary that somehow feels too short (07:15) The Big Bang Theory ended seven years ago and still pulled 950 million streaming minutes
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