Unf*ck Yourself

Why “Self Love” The Spiritual World Teaches You Is Keeping You From Your Potential

Unf*ck Yourself

Show Notes

Everything you thought you knew about self-love is wrong. The spiritual world has tricked you into being okay with staying the same - just to keep you stuck in the spiritual matrix. We’ve been conditioned to believe that accepting yourself and where you’re at is self-love…but it isn’t, it’s complacency. The Source definition of self-love is putting yourself first - so you can finally create what you truly desire AND show up for others at 100% too. It’s pushing yourself to align with the...

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