Show Notes
How many times have you witnessed a woman being mean to her partner? How often have you heard a man respond with, "Yes, Dear"? Or maybe you are the woman or man in these scenarios? We've received a lot of feedback from our episode about porn, self-pleasure, and soft men, and today's episode is an extension of that episode. Because a common dynamic we're seeing in many relationships is one where the woman becomes quite mean, aggressive, and volatile. And unfortunately, the man is on the receiving end, continually bearing the brunt of her aggression and volatility. So in today’s powerful episode, we’re setting blame and judgment aside and exploring what happens when the man loses his connection to his power, masculinity, and leadership and how this is then received in the relationship. But there are two sides to every story. We're also talking about the feminine's experience and what may have led her to act in this way, the dynamic that leads to creating the “Yes, Dear” man, and the importance of trusting your partner's leadership and asserting your own boundaries. So, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to better understand the dynamics you might be perpetuating so you and your partner can start to heal yourself and your relationship. Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/47-meanwomen Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms. If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass! Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started. Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.
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The only thing we know how to share is the truth. And that truth is, dear listeners, that this is very likely our last episode. And needless to say, we’re feeling quite emotional about it. But we’re also basking in celebration over what we've created together. We have reached so many people (over half a million downloads) and have poured so much of our truth into this work and our mission to show people the truth of intimacy, love, communication, and integrity. And we are very proud of that. So in today’s emotional episode, we’re sharing what led to this moment, saying goodbye to you, our amazing listeners, and welcoming all the amazing things yet to come. Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to say goodbye. Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/70-farewell Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s Manifesturbation™ Activations at manifesturbation.com. Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms. If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass! Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started. Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.
What are our views on polyamory and open relationships? How to overcome shame around masturbation? Do we work with couples? These are just some of your questions that we’re answering in today’s episode. And though we‘re not having sex, we are riding your questions straight into a full-blown answer climax. And, of course, we go really deep on each of these questions to help you find the answers you’re looking for so that you can grow and learn on this amazing journey with us. We’re diving into polyamory and open relationships (the difference between them, our views, and whether we would ever consider either), greeting shame head-on, and surrendering to challenge and resistance. So grab your headset, tune in, and find out the answers to your questions! (And if you’d like to hear your questions answered in a future episode, the best place is to send them to us on Instagram @laceyandflynn.) Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/69-polyamory Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s Manifesturbation™ Activations at manifesturbation.com. Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms. If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass! Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started. Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.
A rare silver Yeti lived in the deepest part of the forest. She was magical and creative, but she was very big, and all of the other creatures were scared of her and couldn't reconcile how tender she was with her brutish appearance… Not knowing that this would turn into the episode that it did, we start today with a very special and magical bedtime story that turned out to be so much more. We explore the true meaning behind Lacey’s bedtime story, her recent experience that has left her with a vulnerability hangover, and feeling misunderstood (and how to handle it). Because though we both feel truly called to do this work, the truth is that it takes a lot of strength to hold the unknown and do what feels right. But it is also true that we never know with certainty what’s going to happen, and that can stir up a lot of emotions and raise many fear-based questions. So in today’s episode, we dive into all of this and more. Grab your headset, tune in, and find out if, in reality, Lacey is the true silver Yeti. Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/68-yeti Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s Manifesturbation™ Activations at manifesturbation.com. Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms. If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass! Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started. Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.
Let’s play a sex game! After all, sex fun is the best fun. So today, we’re bringing you a (mostly) silly episode with Lacey’s completely made-up sex game. (And yes, you can play along too!) And though today’s episode is light and jovial, it’s also educational and insightful. We do get a bit serious at times as we discuss disrupting the energy of how you approach sex and relationships. We also explore dropping below judgment in order to learn about your sexuality, who you are, what you like, and how you want to live your life. So grab your headset, tune in, and play along with our sex game (with your partner or by yourself)! Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/67-sexfun Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s Manifesturbation™ Activations at manifesturbation.com. Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms. If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass! Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started. Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.
Aaand we’re back after an unintentional hiatus! We’re sorry to leave you hanging, so stay tuned for more details on what we’ve been up to. In the meantime, in today’s episode, we’re doing something that we don’t usually do: coming at you with a how-to. As in, how to give a blow job (we kinda gave it away in the title). This isn't your typical how-to, though, because we always want to come at things from an embodied landscape, doing things from within first. So, today we want to take you on a journey of mutual understanding and pleasure, letting go of power dynamic issues, and tuning into your partner. We also share some practical tips and Lacey’s Queen of Pressure and Turkish Dancer techniques. Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to learn all you need to know when it comes to blow jobbing! Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/66-blowjob Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s Manifesturbation™ Activations at manifesturbation.com. Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms. If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass! Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started. Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.