Show Notes
Most of us think we're pretty good at listening. From kids asked to "whakarongo mai" at school, to a one-on-one catch up with a friend, listening can't be that hard, can it? But what changes when the person speaking feels truly heard or understood? And what similarities are there between listening to others, and listening to God? In this episode, Petra talks to sexologist and relationship coach Meg Cowan about how we can better listen to others. Later on, fan favourite Rev. Spanky Moore returns to share what he has noticed in the years he's spent listening to God, and helping others to do the same. Rev. Frank Ritchie brings a fantastic reflection of Communion, we hear your thoghts during Community Life, and there's top notch waiata/music as always. Sacred Texts: - Francis Bebey and the Pygmy Flute Music: Emotional Intelligence by Chaos in the CBD (played to start Meg's interview) Space 7 by Nala Sinephro (played to end Meg's interview) Man I Need by Olivia Dean Rivers That You Cannot See by North Americans (played during communion) Live for Each Other by Cut Off Your Hands Homeless Wanderer by Emahoy Tsege Maryam Gebru (played at the end) Bird sound effect: Various_birds_bush_NewZealand_4channel_front.flac by Phistomefel -- https://freesound.org/s/326546/ -- License: Attribution 3.0
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