Show Notes
What if the thing you’re missing right now isn’t motivation — but a village?
In this episode of The SMARTA Podcast, I sit down with Jonathan Conyers, author of I Wasn’t Supposed to Be Here, campaign feature on Humans of New York, and a voice recognised by The Washington Post, to talk about resilience, community, forgiveness, and how to keep going when life stacks the odds against you.
This conversation is raw, honest, and deeply human. Jonathan shares how belief carried him through hardship, why every moment is bittersweet, and how finding mentors, in unexpected places, changed the trajectory of his life.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
• Why community is non negotiable for growth • What Jonathan means by everything being bittersweet • How forgiveness frees you more than anyone else • How to find mentors even when no one looks like you • Why confidence starts with understanding your own story • How using your voice can change your future • Why taking life one day at a time is sometimes the bravest strategy
Jonathan Conyers is an author speaker and founder working at the intersection of storytelling education and community building. His memoir I Wasn’t Supposed to Be Here gained national attention through a viral Humans of New York campaign and has been featured by The Washington Post. He is also the co founder of the Brooklyn Debate League empowering young people to claim their voice and rewrite their futures.
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This episode is a reminder that you are not behind. You are becoming.
In this episode: 00:00 – Welcome to Episode 3 of the Year 02:15 – The three lessons that shaped Jonathan’s life 05:20 – Why community matters more than talent 09:30 – Growing up with belief when the odds are against you 14:30 – Finding mentors in unexpected places 19:00 – The Humans of New York moment and what it changed 24:00 – Becoming a father and finding a reason to keep going 28:05 – Staying focused when life feels unstable 32:00 – Helping young people claim their voice 36:50 – Passion as the through line of every career 40:30 – Advice Jonathan would give his 17 year old self 43:00 – Books that changed his perspective 45:30 – Final message for anyone who feels they are not enough
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