Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff with Kristine Carlson

Reclaiming Inner Confidence Series: Attracting Your Next Partner Wisely with Bern Mendez

Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff with Kristine Carlson

Show Notes

Reentering the dating world in midlife can feel daunting—but it doesn’t have to be. Internationally acclaimed relationship coach Bern Mendez joins Kris as she reflects on her own early experiences of stepping back into dating after loss, and together, they share practical strategies for navigating modern dating with authenticity and self-confidence. Bern Mendez is a neuroscience-based dating and relationship coach with over 14 years of experience helping accomplished midlife women break through subconscious emotional barriers and create deeply committed, lasting partnerships. Featured by CNN, HuffPost, Redbook, and more, Bern is recognized globally as a trusted voice in the field. His YouTube channel ranks among the top twelve most-followed dating advice platforms for women worldwide, with over 30 million views and a community of 227,000 subscribers. Connect with Bern Mendez at Bernmendez.com

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Oct 8, 2026

This week, as part of the What Now? Series, Kristine Carlson offers a transformational episode dedicated to the art of self-discovery. You’ll learn how to recognize the “small self”(the ego that labels and boxes you in) and how to lovingly shift your awareness toward your true self, the part of you aligned with soul, spirit, and source. You’ll get practical insights for returning to the present moment, cultivating gratitude, and trusting your inner wisdom. Discover why the voice of your highest self is a gentle whisper of love, in contrast to the ego’s loud, critical narratives of 'not-enoughness.'If you’re yearning for deeper self-compassion, peace, and authenticity, bring these practices into your daily life. Practice returning to the present with breath, hand to heart, and the simple reminder: “I am safe. I am loved.” After listening, you’ll feel reconnected, centered, and empowered to shine your authentic light, no matter what comes your way!

Sep 24, 2026

This week, Kristine Carlson welcomes Lauren Ray for a heartfelt conversation about transformation, resilience, and starting anew. Lauren, a former veterinary neurosurgeon and founder of Blue Fox Farm, opens up about her journey through loss, emotional healing, and rediscovering her authentic self. Listen in for inspiration on navigating life’s unexpected turns, the power of plant medicine in personal renewal, and creating spaces for healing and connection.You can find Lauren’s book “Haute Couture to Oat Couture: A Memoir of Transformation” at Amazon. And subscribe to Mama Farmette Substack.

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