As a Woman

The Mental Load of Trying to Conceive and Infertility | Dr. Pooja Lakshmin

As a Woman

Show Notes

In this episode, host Natalie sits down with board-certified psychiatrist Dr. Pooja Lakshman to dismantle the toxic "wellness" culture that leaves women feeling more exhausted than when they started. They explore the hidden architecture of burnout - moving past the superficial world of bubble baths and meditation apps to address the systemic pressures and internal "tiny dictators" that dictate our worth. This is a conversation about why "doing more" isn't the cure and how to reclaim your agency when life feels like a burden you’re carrying alone.

What You’ll Learn:

The critical neurobiological distinction between everyday stress and the psychological collapse of meaning found in true burnout.

Why your inner critic might actually be a "tiny dictator" and the simple naming exercise that helps you reclaim your mental autonomy.

The "Pause, Yes, No, or Negotiate" framework for setting boundaries that account for the real-world costs of saying no.

How to use the "Check Engine Light" metaphor to separate structural guilt from your actual moral compass.

Why psychological integrity is the only resource that truly matters when navigating high-stakes health journeys like infertility.

Resources:

Order The Fertility Formula! ⁠https://www.nataliecrawfordmd.com/book⁠

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Instagram: @nataliecrawfordmd

Youtube Channel: Natalie Crawford MD

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