Show Notes
Today's special guest, Blaine Bartel shares his very HONEST and vulnerable story of a life involving secrecy, porn addiction to affairs.
While Blaine's story is heart breaking, his comeback story (after being told his likelihood to recover would be a shear miracle) is what has transformed the lives of many men, including my husband.
You'll hear not only Blaine's story but also, how Blaine was the first beacon of hope for us when my husband was in his darkest hours in his addiction.
To get help through Blaine's ministry and to learn more, go to: https://www.blainebartel.com/houseofresurrection
https://www.blainebartel.com/houseofresurrection
Interested in my coaching? Go to: https://identitylife.coach/
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