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Mr. Podos is a life -long resident of Utica New York. In his early professional career, he worked for a number of non-for-profit entities as Executive Director. In 2000 Podos was part of the faculty of a private business college located in Utica and held the position of Adjunct Instructor. He furthered his teaching career in 2005 when he became a faculty member at Mohawk Valley Community College, (also located in Utica New York), where he taught economics, marketing, and labor law till 2015. Podos is a former writer for Campus News- the country’s largest community college newspaper. Presently he writes for Mohawk Valley in Good Health newspaper and is one of their senior writers for the past 7 plus years. Contact information- Cell- 315-292-0589 E mail- [email protected] or- [email protected]
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