Are You Tired?

You know, when you’re tired, it’s reflected in your voice, in your face, in your body language, in your attitude. It affects all areas of your life. So, it is something to consider and by God’s grace to control in our lives. Otherwise, you can find yourself on a not-so-merry merry-go-round!

First, let me assure you it’s okay to be tired. It’s not necessarily a sin. Jesus was often tired while he was here on earth. You remember when he went to sleep on the boat and a terrible storm didn’t awaken him? He was tired.

Have you ever been tired from traveling? You may see travel as exciting, which doesn’t sound like hard work, nonetheless travel can be very exhausting. We read in John 4 that Jesus was tired from a long journey. He understands that kind of tiredness.

Sometimes having a lot of people around is tiring, isn’t it? As much as I enjoy being with people, speaking and getting to know new people, I find that after a time of being surrounded with people, I’m tired—not of people, just mentally and physically tired. I think there is abundant evidence that Jesus frequently grew tired from having so many people crowding around him all the time.

He also grew weary from dealing with people who were not always so easy or pleasant to deal with. You can hear the exhaustion in his voice in Matthew 17:17:

“You unbelieving and perverse generation,” Jesus replied, “how long shall I stay with you? How long shall I put up with you?”

I think, like us, he was just tired of the hassle that people sometimes brought into his life.

I’m not sure which is the most tiring—physical or mental exhaustion. But it’s for sure that as long as we are in these earthbound bodies, we will be tired and weary at times. Jesus was tired in body often and also tired mentally, just like you and me.

It’s good to know that Jesus understands our tired bodies and minds, because he experienced all it while he took the form of man here on earth. He sympathizes with our weaknesses and the limitations we face. Just knowing that helps me a lot.

Jesus was tired from bodily exhaustion because he was continually involved in giving his life for others. Giving of yourself to others’ needs is tiring, both physically, mentally and emotionally. Is that why you’re tired today? Have you been doing and giving to others so much that you’re truly tired from it? That’s to be expected when you are a caregiver and a servant of others. Jesus calls us to a life of service, that’s true, but he also understands it is tiring.

You remember how exhausted Elijah was after his victorious encounter with Baal, where he performed mighty miracles of God and defeated the enemies. He was so tired, he wanted to die. You should expect to be tired and weary after a spiritual high. Maybe God has been using you in an unusual way, and you’ve seen God’s blessings on your life. Remember after those times to expect to feel tired and weary.

There are many occasions in Scripture where we see the disciples tired. They were so tired that sometimes they fell asleep at inappropriate times. Our physical bodies have limitations, and we must understand and accept that they will be tired.

But it’s important to consider if you are tired for the wrong reasons. Have you been trying to be all things to all people lately? That’s exhausting and you can never succeed. Perhaps you’ve taken on jobs God never intended you to do, and you’re tired from trying to do too much. Maybe you’re trying to do everything to total perfection. Perfectionists are usually very tired people, trying to prove something to themselves and to the world by being perfect all the time.

Lately God has been quietly showing me that there is only one Savior in this world, and it is not me! I cannot solve other’s problems or concerns, as much as I may want to. Does that strike a chord with you? Are your overhelping and rescuing inclinations running on overdrive? It can happen even when your motivation and intentions are good.

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