Show Notes
Do young men think big muscles is what makes a real man? Are they moving to the right and backing the populists? Are they obsessed with Andrew Tate? There's one man who knows the answers - because he's asked them - polling guru Luke Tryl, executive director of More in Common. In this myth busting conversation Luke tells us what young men say really matters most to them.
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