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Jeff Arcuri: The Lie He Told Himself to Stay "Strong" for His Wife (#273)

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He told himself he had to be strong for her. His therapist told him that was the problem.

Comedian Jeff Arcuri sits down to talk about the year his wife's health scare changed how he understood what "being there" actually means — and the moment a therapist called out the one thing he was doing wrong.

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