Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

Why Chasing Him Never Works - Benson Book Club

Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

Show Notes

Stop chasing men who are not choosing you. If you keep overgiving, overthinking, and ending up with the same guy in a different body, this one’s for you. This week on Daddy Issues, Violet dives into the book Why Men Love B*tches and breaks down why men chase what they have to earn. It's all part of this week’s Benson Book Club. Get more content on: • @violetbenson on Instagram • @daddyissues_ on Instagram • YouTube She has Thanks to our sponsors: Nutrafol: Receive $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code DADDYISSUES. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at SHOPIFY.COM/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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