Show Notes
Why do we ease off the accelerator when we spot a Garda car, but never dream of driving home after a few pints? One is the fear of punishment. The other is a shift in values. That contrast is the difference between power and influence.
In this episode of Mind the Gap, Michael Comyn explores why power bends behaviour only in the moment, while influence reshapes belief for the long term. From speed limits to the cultural transformation around drink driving, the discussion weaves together Robert Greene’s 48 Laws of Power, the wisdom of the Stoics, and insights from emotional intelligence.
If you are a regular listener, this episode invites you to reflect more deeply on how you lead, how you parent, and how you live. Are you leaning on power to get quick compliance, or are you cultivating influence that endures?
These reflections are also explored in greater depth in Michael’s new book Mind the Gap, now available worldwide in Kindle, paperback, and hardback editions on Amazon.
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