The Twilight Conversations

#185 - Are you coming out to play?’ - Vinnie Judge

The Twilight Conversations

Show Notes

In this episode, we keep in the family as I interview my baby brother Vinnie, who is now a grown assed adult! We explore childhood, loneliness, isolation, family dynamics, a little bit of Alan Partridge, lots of laughs as we discuss recovery, spirituality & philosophy..as always through the lens of some brilliant music!

Podcast Editor - Ger Kellett

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References ----------------------

‘More than a feeling’ Boston from Boston (1976)

‘Hey you’ Pink Floyd from The Wall (1979)

‘While my guitar gently weeps’ The Beatles from The Beatles (1968)

‘I want you to want me’ Paul Brady from Spirits colliding (1996) ‘The boys of summer’ BellX1 (single 2020)

‘The only living boy in New york’ Everything but the girl’ from the Only living boy EP (1993)

‘Waterloo Sunset’ The Kinks from Something else (1967)

‘Wouldnt it be good’ Nik Kershaw from Human racing (1984)

‘Big love’ (live) Lyndsey Buckingham (1997) originally from Tango in the night (1987)

‘Whatever’s written in your heart’ Gerry Rafferty from City to City (1978)

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