Show Notes
Episode Overview In this episode of CNME Connects, Selene, Dennis and Ken explore the power of coaching conversations and how deep listening and thoughtful guidance can support personal growth, professional development and wellbeing. The discussion explores what coaching is, how it differs from mentoring or counselling, and how reflective conversations can help individuals gain clarity, build confidence and navigate challenges. The episode also reflects on self-awareness, emotional regulation and reflective practice, particularly for healthcare professionals working in busy clinical environments. Key Themes in This Episode
What coaching is and how it differs from advice-giving
The importance of deep listening
Guiding rather than directing conversations
The role of reflection in personal and professional growth
Coaching as a tool for leadership and wellbeing
Asking thoughtful questions that support insight and change
Resources Mentioned HSE Coaching Supports Healthcare staff in Ireland can access confidential coaching through the HSE. HSE National Coaching ServiceCoaching supports are available to HSE staff and Section 38 organisations. Coaching can support leadership development, career progression, confidence building and navigating workplace challenges. https://healthservice.hse.ie/staff/training-and-development/coaching/
Authors and Influences Mentioned Brené Brown Researcher and author exploring vulnerability, courage, empathy and leadership. Recommended reading
Dare to Lead
Atlas of the Heart
The Gifts of Imperfection
Websitehttps://brenebrown.com Anne Lamott Writer known for thoughtful reflections on spirituality, compassion and personal growth. Recommended reading
Bird by Bird
Help, Thanks, Wow
Websitehttps://annelamott.com Iyanla Vanzant Spiritual teacher and author who speaks about emotional healing, self-awareness and spiritual hygiene. Recommended reading
Acts of Faith
In the Meantime
Peace from Broken Pieces
Websitehttps://iyanlavanzant.com Why Coaching Matters in Healthcare Coaching skills can strengthen communication and leadership in healthcare settings by helping professionals:
listen more effectively
support colleagues through reflection rather than advice
encourage psychological safety
develop insight and self-awareness
improve teamwork and decision-making
Even simple coaching skills such as curiosity, listening and thoughtful questioning can transform everyday conversations. Reflection Question for Listeners As you listen to this episode, consider: When was the last time someone truly listened to you without trying to solve the problem? And equally: How often do we offer that same quality of listening to others?
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