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Estée Lalonde on Building Mirror Water and finally asking for help

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Show Notes

“I love a trier. It doesn’t matter where it goes. If you are actually out there trying, that’s the special sauce right there.” - Estée Lalonde

Estée Lalonde has spent 16 years as a content creator, building an audience of more than a million YouTube subscribers. When she launched her body care brand Mirror Water, she’d never had a corporate job and had never used a spreadsheet. Five years later, the brand is mostly self-funded and has grown entirely organically, with no paid media until recently. It’s stocked in Space NK, Liberty, Selfridges and Cult Beauty. In this episode, Estée gets honest about the difference between building an audience and building a business. She talks about why followers don’t automatically become customers, why she still doesn’t take a salary from her own brand, and what it really takes to launch a beauty brand on a fraction of the usual budget.

For aspiring female entrepreneurs and creators who want to build a brand that stands on its own, this is a candid look at creator-led brands and retail. Estée shares the founder mistakes she’d undo (hello, expensive office), how landing her first stockist and one glowing press review changed everything, and why she’s always asking other founders for help. She also covers how she weighs raising investment against staying independent, how she splits her time between Mirror Water and her YouTube channel, and how she’s keeping the brand distinct on an increasingly crowded body care shelf. She also opens up about the year she finally asked for help, why “good enough” isn’t good enough anymore, and why networking in person still matters.

INSIDE THE EPISODE:

00:00 — Intro: Meet Estée Lalonde

02:26 — The Year She Finally Asked for Help

09:48 — Nobody’s Coming to Save You

12:59 — Why You Have to Be in the Room

18:45 — Why “Good Enough” Isn’t Good Enough Anymore

23:16 — Founder Mistakes, Motherhood & Having It All

30:07 — Falling Back in Love With YouTube

33:07 — How Mirror Water Started

37:09 — A Brand That Never Tells You to Do More

41:03 — Raising Money vs Staying Self-Funded

44:42 — Running a Brand and a Channel at Once

47:45 — Why Followers Don’t Equal Customers

50:33 — What Moved the Needle: Stockists, Press & Founder Friends

53:55 — Standing Out on a Crowded Shelf

56:32 — Setting the Tone for What’s Next + Where to Find Estée

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Estée Lalonde on Instagram: @esteelalonde

Mirror Water on Instagram: @mirrorwater.earth

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