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His father betrayed his family. Years later, his own son walked away. How does one man survive estrangement from both sides?In this powerful episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi Morris sits down with author Jonah A. Thorne III to discuss family betrayal, protecting his daughter, and the devastating consequences of doing what he believed was right.🔗 Connect & Explore📖 Jonah's Book: To the Man I Called Fatherhttps://amzn.to/4dGII6M🌐 Jonah's Websitehttps://www.jonahthorne.com/🛍️ Candi's Website, Books & Resourceshttps://www.estrangedandrearranged.com/resources📘 Facebook Pagehttps://www.facebook.com/share/1CuD1nHeS8/👥 Join Our Facebook Support Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/1SU79VBP4o/❤️ Live Through It: Group Coachinghttps://www.estrangedandrearranged.com/livethroughitAbout This Episode:Jonah once shared an incredibly close relationship with his father. But when he discovered his father had sexually abused his daughter, everything changed.What followed was a five-year legal battle, the loss of nearly 30 family relationships, and years of emotional turmoil.Then Jonah experienced another heartbreak when his own adult son became estranged.Candi and Jonah discuss how trauma changes families, why protecting one relationship can cost you others, and what it means to take responsibility while learning to live with loss.Jonah shares his experience in his memoir, To the Man I Called Father: A Son's Heartbreak, a Father's War, written under a pen name to protect his family.💬 Have you ever experienced estrangement from both sides of a family relationship? Share your thoughts in the comments.👍 Like, subscribe, and share to help these conversations reach more families.You've still got a life to live. Now go live it.⚠️ Content Warning: This episode discusses childhood sexual abuse, family trauma, and suicidal thoughts. Viewer discretion is advised.#FamilyEstrangement #EstrangedParents #FamilyTrauma

What happens when your adult child walks away, and 23 years later, you're still waiting for them to come back?For more than two decades, Susan Metzger has lived with family estrangement. Four of her six children remain estranged, but through years of heartbreak, rejection, and uncertainty, she's discovered something important: You don't have to wait for reconciliation to begin healing.In this episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi Morris sits down with Susan Metzger, founder of Parents in the Waiting Room, host of the Flip Flops and Freedom podcast, and author of Rejected Yet Redeemed: Hope, Healing, and Faith for Parents of Estranged Adult Children.Together, they explore what it means to keep living when someone you love has walked away.They discuss the emotional toll of waiting for reconciliation, the guilt and shame estranged parents often carry, and how rejection can slowly change the way we see ourselves.You'll also hear about:- Why saying "I'm fine" doesn't necessarily mean you're healing.- How estrangement affects fathers, grandparents, stepparents, and adoptive parents.- The difference between taking responsibility and blaming yourself for everything.- Why forgiveness doesn't require reconciliation.- How faith helped Susan navigate more than two decades of estrangement.- What it means to get unstuck and create a new, meaningful life.Susan also shares the inspiration behind her book, her support community, and her belief that even when a family relationship remains broken, your life doesn't have to be.You can still love your child. You can still hope for reconciliation. And you can still live your life.🔗 Connect & Explore🛍️ Website & Resourceshttps://www.estrangedandrearranged.com/resources📘 Facebook Pagehttps://www.facebook.com/share/1CuD1nHeS8/👥 Join the Facebook Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/1SU79VBP4o/🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@estranged.and.rea?_r=1&_t=ZT-95tKbPyH3mAConnect with Susan Metzger📖 Susan's Book: Rejected Yet RedeemedHope, Healing, and Faith for Parents of Estranged Adult Childrenhttps://amzn.to/4B3Ncyy🌐 Susan's Website:https://susanmetzger.org/🎙️ Flip Flops and Freedom Podcast:https://susanmetzger.org/podcast💗 Parents in the Waiting Room Facebook Support Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/parentsinthewaitingroom

What if your estranged child never comes back? And what if they finally do… but you’re no longer sure you want the relationship back?Those are difficult questions, but they’re questions many estranged parents eventually face.In this episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi talks through the “what ifs” that can consume your thoughts during family estrangement: What if they never call? What if they return and leave again? What if your grandchildren forget you? What if the rest of the family slowly moves on without you? And what happens when years of estrangement change what reconciliation would even look like?Candi also explores rebuilding trust, setting boundaries if contact resumes, preserving memories for estranged grandchildren, and learning how to keep living without giving up the love you still have for your child.Because hope and healing can exist at the same time. You can love your child, miss them deeply, and still build a life that isn’t centered around waiting for the phone to ring.💬 Which “what if” gets to you the most? Share it in the comments. Someone else may be carrying the exact same question.🔗 Connect & Explore🛍️ Website & Resourceshttps://www.estrangedandrearranged.com/resources📘 Facebook Pagehttps://www.facebook.com/share/1CuD1nHeS8/👥 Join the Facebook Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/1SU79VBP4o/🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@estranged.and.rea?_r=1&_t=ZT-95tKbPyH3mA

When family estrangement happens, it’s easy to create a detailed record of the pain. The screenshots. The emails. The unanswered messages. The holidays that felt different. The conversations we replay over and over.But what about the record of our love?In this episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi Morris shares a deeply personal realization about the years she has spent estranged from her son and granddaughter. She talks about the emails she has saved, the messages she has written, and the difference between documenting our hurt and preserving the love, memories, stories, and family history that existed long before estrangement.Candi also explores what happens to family history when people stop speaking. Recipes disappear. Stories get forgotten. Children and grandchildren miss the ordinary moments where family history is normally passed from one generation to another.And there’s an important distinction: preserving those memories doesn’t mean breaking no contact, sending unwanted messages, or creating an emotional bill someone else has to pay.Sometimes you can simply write it down.Save the recipe. Label the photograph. Keep the voicemail. Record the family story. Write the letter you may never send.Because pain is already a really good record keeper. Maybe love needs a little more help.In this episode:- Why painful memories can overpower the good ones- Candi’s experience documenting her estrangement- The difference between preserving love and creating an “emotional invoice”- What happens to family history during estrangement- Why you can write something without ever sending it- Preserving memories for estranged children and grandchildren- Making peace with not knowing whether reconciliation will happen💗 Join the Estranged & Rearranged communityVisit estrangedandrearranged.com for the podcast, support resources, Candi’s book, coaching information, and details about the Thursday night Zoom support meetings.If this conversation resonates with you, subscribe, share the episode, and leave a review. And in the comments, tell us one family story, recipe, tradition, or ordinary memory you never want your family to lose.You still have a life to live. Now go live it.🔗 Connect & Explore🛍️ Website & Resourceshttps://www.estrangedandrearranged.com/resources📘 Facebook Pagehttps://www.facebook.com/share/1CuD1nHeS8/👥 Join the Facebook Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/1SU79VBP4o/🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@estranged.and.rea?_r=1&_t=ZT-95tKbPyH3mA

When a parent and adult child become estranged, the loss rarely stays between just two people.Siblings get caught in the middle. Grandparents can lose contact with grandchildren. Holidays change. Cousins drift apart. Relatives feel pressured to choose sides. Sometimes nobody intentionally cuts anyone else off, but the family slowly reorganizes around the relationship that's gone. Candi calls this the blast radius of family estrangement.In this episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi explores what happens to everyone standing outside the original estrangement. She talks about kinkeeping, the difference between a healthy boundary and a loyalty test, the real costs that can accompany no contact, and why supporting someone doesn't always mean agreeing with them.She also asks a difficult question: Can one relationship end without requiring every other relationship in the family to end with it?This isn't about deciding who's right or wrong. It's about recognizing that one broken relationship can change five others, and asking whether families can keep that original estrangement from becoming the organizing principle for everyone else.💬 Join the conversation:Who else disappeared or became distant after the original estrangement? Where do you think a healthy boundary ends and a loyalty test begins?📅 Weekly Support Group: Thursdays at 7 PM CSTIf this conversation resonates with you, subscribe, share the episode, and leave a comment. It helps other people navigating family estrangement find this community.And remember: You’ve still got a life to live. Now go live it.🔗 Connect & Explore🛍️ Website & Resourceshttps://www.estrangedandrearranged.com/resources📘 Facebook Pagehttps://www.facebook.com/share/1CuD1nHeS8/👥 Join the Facebook Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/1SU79VBP4o/🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@estranged.and.rea?_r=1&_t=ZT-95tKbPyH3mA