Show Notes
Ninety years after How to Win Friends and Influence People was first published, its principles continue to shape how people communicate, lead, and build lasting relationships. In this special anniversary edition of Take Command, we revisit two powerful conversations with Guy Fieri and Lisa Sun, whose lives were changed by the book at very different stages of their journeys.
Guy discovered the book at twenty-two, when ambition and operational know-how had not yet taught him how to lead people. Its lessons challenged him to slow down, consider how others received his words, and understand what motivates each individual. Lisa read a 99-cent copy at age twelve. For her, the book became a formative guide to connecting across cultures, remembering names, asking thoughtful questions, and becoming genuinely interested in others.
Their stories span different generations, industries, and experiences, yet they arrive at the same truth: meaningful influence begins with understanding people. Listen in for an energetic, thoughtful celebration of the ideas that helped Guy become a more people-centered leader and gave Lisa the confidence to find her voice.
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