Show Notes
The Day Your Best Employee Stops Caring
Your top performer isn't going to complain. They're not going to miss a deadline. They're going to keep doing good, steady, quiet work — right up until the day they hand you a resignation letter and tell you they were "done here a while ago."
Bored isn't the opposite of engaged. Bored is the first stage of gone.
In this episode, John Espinosa shares the mistake he made with his own most reliable team member — and gives you The Stretch Move: a three-part conversation you can have this week to re-challenge your best people before somebody else does.
🔹 THE STRETCH MOVE
1. Name the Ceiling — say the quiet thing out loud, and ask the one question that matters 2. Hand Over a Decision, Not a Task — why more work feels like punishment, and authority feels like growth 3. Move the Scoreboard — people grow toward what you keep asking about
Plus the LEAD Framework tie-in (Listen, Envision, Align, Drive) and a 15-minute assignment you can run this week.
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