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Embracing Pleasure and Power: A Deep Dive with Dr. Jordin Wiggins In this insightful episode, Dr. Jordin Wiggins, a naturopathic doctor, author, and pleasure and intimacy coach, shares her revolutionary approach to women's sexual health and wellness. As the CEO of the Pleasure Collective and host of the Amazing Pleasure Principles podcast, Dr. Wiggins combines her 13 years of holistic medical experience with personal insights as a sexual abuse survivor to help high-achieving women reclaim their pleasure. She discusses her journey, the impact of hormone health on sexual desire, and the systemic issues in women's healthcare. Dr. Wiggins also emphasizes the importance of pleasure in all aspects of life and offers practical advice for women to receive and enjoy more from their lives. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand the deep connections between pleasure, health, and overall well-being. 00:00 Introduction to Dr. Jordin Wiggins 01:20 Formative Years and Early Influences 03:24 Hormone and Sexual Health Journey 05:23 The Pink Canary and Rediscovering Pleasure 07:01 Challenges in Women's Health and Hormone Therapy 09:35 Super Traits and Their Impact on Relationships 21:39 Expanding the Definition of Pleasure 26:35 Medical System Gaps and Women's Health 35:05 Receiving in Life and Relationships 39:13 The Value of Support and Compensation 39:56 Embracing Sensation and Tantra 40:34 Emotional Shifts and Relationship Dynamics 41:58 Navigating Perimenopause and Hormone Therapy 44:09 Pleasure-Centered Relationships 46:35 Challenges of Long-Term Relationships 49:07 Self-Discovery and Authenticity 51:35 Protecting Mental Wellbeing 54:26 Healing from Abuse and Rebuilding 01:01:17 Recognizing Coercive Control 01:04:12 Starting the Journey to Deeper Intimacy 01:07:35 Future Plans and Final Thoughts https://form.typeform.com/to/p9OQD3F5?typeform-source=www.upwork.com https://www.thepleasurecollective.com/ https://www.facebook.com/jordin.wiggins https://www.youtube.com/@thepleasurecollective https://www.instagram.com/drjordinwiggins/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/drwigginsnd/ https://www.tiktok.com/@drjordinwiggins
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