Coaching Culture with Ben Herring

How to Break Through as a Coach (Without a Playing Career)

Coaching Culture with Ben Herring

Show Notes

A Champions Cup-winning rugby attack coach who never played professional rugby should not make sense and that’s exactly why Noel McNamara’s story matters. We sit with the uncomfortable truth that the “perfect CV” is often overrated, and the real separator is how you think when an opportunity is risky, unglamorous, or confusing to everyone around you. We dig into what stood out most from Noel’s journey: a very low fear of failure and a willingness to say yes early. One move leads to the next,...

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