Dog unsure around people? Stop the reaction and start building trust today.
Barks to Basics Podcast with Renee PatienceShow Notes
Does your dog seem unsure around new people, freeze when approached, or react suddenly in situations that feel unpredictable?
Maybe they are not being difficult. Maybe their brain is simply trying to stay safe. In this episode, we are looking inside the canine nervous system to explore why fear-based behaviours happen, and how a method we developed at Paws Academy, called Trust Step, can help.
This approach is grounded in neuroscience but designed for real life. You will learn what is really going on when dogs bark, bolt or avoid, why control is often the missing piece in training plans, and how to use clear, consistent patterns to help your dog feel safe enough to choose connection instead of retreat.
We will walk you through how Trust Step works, what makes it different from common techniques like luring or exposure, and how to avoid mistakes that can make progress slower. We will also share real stories of dogs who moved from shutdown to confident, not by being pushed, but by being given a choice.
If you live with a dog who is fearful, sensitive or reactive, or if you support clients who do, this episode is for you. It is practical, thoughtful and built on real experience. No complicated routines. Just one step at a time, led by what the dog is ready for.
Tune in and explore a new way of thinking about behaviour, trust and choice.
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