Show Notes
What does it mean to be needy? How can you explore your needs? How can we let go of what people (our partner) might think of us?
Being strong is being soft - we have to go past the « strong woman » archetype and to accept that we have FEELINGS and that they’re o-kay. It is safe to address your needs. We actually have to address them (ourselves) in order to help others.
If you need help to find out what your needs are exactly - I can help. This is part of what I do in Relationship Readings: feeling into your and your partner's energy and give you ways to come closer, so both of your needs are satisfied. Check the info here: https://www.marionchloetheis.com/relationship-reading
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