How Pure Are you? Femdom Purity test results and more!
The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power DynamicsShow Notes
How pure are you, really? This week the results are in. We’re talking about the Rice Purity Test results, filthy confessions, and exactly how to use a silly internet quiz to unlock a new kind of sexual intimacy.
Here is how the game works. You begin at one hundred. Every dirty, delicious thing you have done strips one point away. The closer to one hundred, the more "pure" you supposedly are. But we all know purity is just a word people use before they learn what their bodies are truly capable of.
We asked listeners to take the test and send in their results. For the truly brave ones, they did the tests from the point of view of each Femdom Mistress. We were so curious to find out how you see us … and to learn more about you.
This test becomes a springboard to share stories from our private lives and we end up modeling the communication we also recommend for you. Why? Because the most productive thing you can do for your sex life is to have these conversations outside the bedroom.
Ms Erika suggests that you use this test as a sexual bucket list. If your number is still high, that only means you have not been properly trained yet.
Mistress Erika and I excel at naughty pleasures. We can train you, tease you, and guide you through every act that drags that score lower and leaves your cock leaking with the evidence of your new exploits.
Get in touch:DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia
[email protected] Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
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