
EP.02 How Purity Culture Shaped Our View of Our Body with Courtney Alexander
Dating and Desire PodcastShow Notes
Many Christians grew up hearing that desire was dangerous. That their bodies couldn't be trusted. That rigid rules were the path to purity. In this episode, biblical trauma-informed coach Courtney Alexander unpacks four specific distortions that came out of purity culture—and how they continue to affect both singles and married people today. Courtney, Bridgett, and Lauren discuss: Why desire and lust are not the same thing
How shutting down sexual arousal often shuts down joy and delight too
The difference between managing your body and living in it
Why boundaries rooted in fear don't protect you - they isolate you
They also tackle the hard question of what sin actually means when Scripture is clear in some areas and personal conviction matters in others. If you've ever felt numb, confused, or ashamed about what you want, this episode offers a path back to trust - with your body, with the Holy Spirit, and with yourself. == Watch this video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/HPsTyidXrwM == 📱Follow @datinganddesire on Instagram for updates and conversation. == Connect with Courtney: Website | Instagram | Coaching == Connect with Bridgett: Instagram Website | Coaching| Free Resources| RECLAIM Cohort📓Get the free Value-Based Boundaries in Dating Guide == Connect with Lauren: Instagram | Website Dating Apps Don’t Have to Be Confusing. Get the free guide here!
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